PARENT'S DEAL THE RIGHT CARD !đĄ
- Goran Milutinovic
- Mar 16
- 3 min read
đ Parents, Are You Gambling Your Childâs Future Away?
đ° Youâre playing a dangerous game.
Not with money.
Not with stocks.
Not with business deals.
Youâre gambling with your childâs life.
And the worst part? Most parents donât even realize theyâre doing it.
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đŽ The Unseen Gamble: The Cards Youâve Already Dealt
đ Guess what?
You shuffled the deck.
You handed out the cards.
And now? Your child is playing the hand YOU gave them.
Every single day, they pick one of two cards:
â ď¸ The âFeel Sorry for Myselfâ Card â The one that leads to blame, excuses, and failure.
âŚď¸ The âResponsibleâ Card â The one that builds strength, resilience, and success.
The real question is: Which card are they learning to master?
And make no mistakeâthey ARE mastering one of them.
Because life isnât waiting. And neither is their mindset.
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đ The Truth About How Kids Learn to Play Their Cards
A child doesnât wake up one day and decide:
"You know what? I think Iâll take full responsibility for my life."
No.
They learn what works by watching YOU.
If you make excuses for them⌠They master the victim card.
If you let them avoid responsibility⌠They master the blame card.
If you challenge them to own their actions⌠They master the responsibility card.
And hereâs the scary part:
đ By the time you realize which card theyâve mastered, itâs already too late.
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đ Two Kids, Two Hands, Two Different Lives
đŚ Liam â The Victim Card Player
Forgot his homework? Mom rushes to school to drop it off.
Failed a test? Dad blames the teacher.
Got in trouble? âOther kids were worse.â
đ¨ By 18, heâs mastered the victim card.
đ¨ By 25, heâs still blaming the system.
đ¨ By 30, heâs stuckâwaiting for life to fix itself.
Because thatâs what the card taught him to do.
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đŚ James â The Responsibility Player
Forgot his homework? "Figure it out."
Failed a test? "Study harder."
Got in trouble? "Own up and fix it."
đĄ By 18, he knows success is earned, not given.
đĄ By 25, heâs building skills instead of waiting for a handout.
đĄ By 30, heâs in control of his lifeâbecause he learned to control himself.
Same world. Same opportunities. Different cards played.
The difference? The dealer.
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đ¨âđŠâđ§âđŚ Parents, Look in the Mirror â You Are the Dealer
Letâs be brutally honest:
đ You canât expect your child to take responsibility if YOU keep handing them the easy way out.
đ You canât expect them to be strong if YOU shield them from struggle.
đ You canât expect them to win in life if YOU keep setting them up to lose.
Because hereâs the truth:
The world wonât ask them, "Whatâs your excuse?"
It will only ask, "What can you do?"
If you keep letting them dodge responsibility, youâre setting them up to lose the only game that mattersâLIFE.
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âł The Window is Small â Before Their Mindset is Locked for Life
đ¨ By age 10, their habits are forming.
đ¨ By age 15, their identity is shaping.
đ¨ By age 20, their mindset is nearly unbreakable.
If you wait until theyâre failing in life to teach them responsibility,
youâre already too late.
That means the time to teach them isnât âsomedayââitâs NOW.
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đĄ The Fix â How to Be a Better Dealer for Your Kid
1ď¸âŁ STOP Covering for Them â If they mess up, let them feel it.
2ď¸âŁ START Holding Them Accountable â Excuses donât pay bills. Responsibility does.
3ď¸âŁ GIVE THEM CHALLENGES â Strength is built through struggle.
4ď¸âŁ TEACH THEM TO EARN, NOT EXPECT â Life doesnât reward feelings. It rewards results.
5ď¸âŁ SHOW THEM HOW TO LEAD â Because if they donât lead themselves, the world will lead them into failure.
đ Your parenting today decides their adulthood tomorrow.
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đŹ If youâre a parent who refuses to raise a weak child, letâs talk.
đŞ If youâre serious about giving them the right cards to play, take the first step.
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Because the world doesnât wait.
And neither should you.
đ Be the dealer who gives your child the right cards to play.
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